Drastic

Mar. 15th, 2005 11:44 am
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[personal profile] gement
I want to chop my hair off. I want a slightly shaggy boy cut. I want to send the braid off to Locks of Love. I currently have about 14" long, braided, so even longer ponytailed.

I want to know how long the waiting period should be on a decision like this.

I want to know if you think it will look good.

I promise not to take anything you vote too seriously.
[Poll #455173]

Date: 2005-03-15 07:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lazyangel.livejournal.com
you should post a picture of yourself for those of us who don't know what you look like :)

Date: 2005-03-15 07:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gement.livejournal.com
Oh. Right. I'll get on that. I look a little like this shot of Eowyn, though. Similar hair and face shape. I've been wearing my hair pulled back tight in a braid for YEARS. I never use my long hair.

Date: 2005-03-15 07:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lazyangel.livejournal.com
i'm all for people chopping their hair off. if you can find someone to give you a really good short hair cut, it's fabulous.

Date: 2005-03-15 08:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pomma-penses.livejournal.com
I'm a big fan of Vain Salon on 1st, except for whomever gave Archie is cut. o_O

Date: 2005-03-15 09:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lazyangel.livejournal.com
my friend anna does a good job, and also Todd at the Rudy's on Capitol Hill does an extra fabulous job

My Two Cents

Date: 2005-03-15 08:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wistol.livejournal.com
Follow your instinct and your heart. Otherwise you'll over-think it and back out.

I did that when I went from REALLY long hair to the shoulder length I have now.

Date: 2005-03-15 08:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] littlemystories.livejournal.com
Advice based on my own series of semi-drastic haircuts:
Do it. It will take some getting used to, and there will be times when you bemoan your choice, but the positives include quicker showers, easier care, the ability to use and carry a comb, and that horrified look on your friends' faces. Plus looking hot.

With my cut (which seems similar to what you want) I usually just wash and wear, and with my chronic habit of finger-combing, it turns out great and a little messy. I can also dress it up. It can look sensible, sensuously disheveled, punk rawk, flippy, cute, or just plain messy. Warning: you may have to learn to use accessories! I'm a big fan of headbands. You might also want to cultivate a side part rather than middle (totally opinion on my part, do what you like). I want to come play with your new hair!!!

Date: 2005-03-15 08:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cristoforio.livejournal.com
Well, you know I have a panic attack at the thought of you cutting your hair, but I'm not sure that my insecurities should have any effect on your decision. I also think you'd look absolutely beautiful no matter what you did to your hair. But please, if you do decide to cut it, may I have a lock of it like you gave me before college?

Date: 2005-03-15 09:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gement.livejournal.com
Yes, love.

Braided, twisted, coiled?

Addendum

Date: 2005-03-15 08:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] littlemystories.livejournal.com
While at some point you'll probably be willing to get cheap haircuts (having short hair really reminds you that it does grow back, and relaxes your attitude toward who touches it), for the first one you'll probably want to go to someone reputable and a little pricy. That's mostly for peace of mind and security, since I've gotten my best haircuts for under $20 (Supercuts, my friend Robbie) and my worst for more (*cough*Michael*cough*).

Re: Addendum

Date: 2005-03-15 09:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gement.livejournal.com
The lovely part of sending it off to Locks of Love is that a great number of places (including Gene Juarez) will do the haircut for free.

I don't want it to look all chicky, though, and I don't want it to look WRONG once it's grown out half an inch. I want simple.

Re: Addendum

Date: 2005-03-15 10:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] littlemystories.livejournal.com
The sad truth about short hair is that you have to maintain it. That said, a good simple haircut will still look look when it's growing out. It just might not look like the same haircut all the time.

Date: 2005-03-15 09:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kitcatk8.livejournal.com
Coming from the Long-Haired Kingdome (spelled with an "e" on purpose) myself, I know what a pain in the ass it can be, and I know how much it would freak everyone out to have it dramatically cut.

I wish I had the courage. Alas, it is not so. But if you can see yourself doing it, and your a little bit scared but more excited about the outcome, do it. It *does* grow back. And now's the time in life to do something a little crazy with it (since in your 80's, it probably won't sound nearly so appealing.) You are braver than I! Cut it and dye it BLUE!

(...the blue part is optional...but that would be kind of cool...:::snicker:::)

Date: 2005-03-16 11:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gement.livejournal.com
I knew you'd say that.

Flirt.

Date: 2005-03-17 01:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] diabhol.livejournal.com
Hey, I'm just happy to be remembered.

So, will there be pictures of the new hairstyle or will I have to come up there and see for myself?

Date: 2005-03-15 10:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gfish.livejournal.com
Sorry, I can never be for people cutting their hair short. Gimme a head with hair, etc.

Date: 2005-03-16 12:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sprgtime.livejournal.com
I donated 12" a couple years ago to Locks of Love.
I didn't go for "short" hair, though. I had it long enough so that when 12" were cut it was still below my shoulder blades. I was thinking about doing it again this year, because I now have enough again. Hubby wants me to keep it this long, though.

I much prefer having long hair, but mine isn't as heavy/thick as yours. I also tend to do a variety of things to it that I couldn't do if I had short hair.

With long hair:
I like not having to frequently get it cut
You typically don't need to use "products" in it
It's fun being topless but being able to cover up with flowy hair
Bad hair days are less common because the weight of the long hair keeps everything more neatly down... you never get that awful stick-up-in-one-spot slept in problem that can happen with shorter hair.

If you do go for short or shorter hair... I could picture something a more sassy on you than a shaggy boy cut (or at least, what I am picturing as shaggy boy cut). Get something that really works with your face and features and it could look great.

Your hair

Date: 2005-03-16 03:14 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Look at all of these sadistic types voting to hack off your 'locks.

Girl, I promise that if you cut even a single hair I will sneak into your bedroom at night and glue each and every one right back in place.

Well, maybe not glue, but braid, splice, weave, sew, nail, staple... you get the idea. Actually, I -do- like to chew gum... this would be better than flushing the remains away.

Capish?

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You are like mispelled gum right now - VERY babeilicious (and here I go, rolling those eyes right back at you).

10 print "don't do it"
20 goto 10

Re: Your hair

Date: 2005-03-16 04:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gement.livejournal.com
Um... could I have an ident on that one? "Anonymous" doesn't give me much context for your opinion.

Re: Your hair

Date: 2005-03-16 11:11 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Do opinions need context? Besides, you said that you wouldn't take our comments too seriously...

At any rate, I'm sure you'd agree that sometimes wearing a mask makes the game ever so much more fun. But here's a hint: you -do- know me, though you may think that I resemble a matter/anti-matter reaction streamed through a dilithium matrix at /\(t) < 0. Or a water-soaked floor for that matter.

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Re: Your hair

Date: 2005-03-16 11:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gement.livejournal.com
I'm coming up with... a guy I took a physics course with in college, a random con buddy, a couple of my favorite high school freaks... a couple of other options.

Sorry, but I know so many people that it's really hard to guess by writing style alone. And I'm not taking anything here seriously, but there are some people whose sense of taste usually matches mine, and some who are usually opposite me, and I'm taking that into account when I read the opinions.

Also, if I know you, we're probably not in current touch, and I'd probably like to catch up on how you're doing. Drop me a line at the LJ e-mail address if you like.

Re: Your hair

Date: 2005-03-17 12:52 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Drop you a line like a fish?

Anyhow, here's another clue (this should be a HUGE giveaway)... think dotted octets and dance dance revolution.

()-> yes, ()+ no

Date: 2005-03-16 12:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shadowblue.livejournal.com
My immediate response is, of course, "gasp!", but the more I think about it, the more I am fairly sure that you will look good no matter what.

I just don't know what kind of good.

Getting a drastic, but good (read: expensive) haircut has always been nothing but cathartic for me personally. You should definitely have some sort of idea of what you want, though, going in. And I don't know what would be good for you as a short/medium hairstyle, because I can't picture you with anything other than what you've always had (to me).

I'd be interested in the results, if you do go through with it.

Date: 2005-03-16 05:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] capnexposition.livejournal.com
Okay, now moving beyond my own pathological fear of change, my own bias that I like your long hair and think it looks good on you (and bearing min mind that the tight braid is practically synonymous with your face in my mind), I know you and your genderbending ways, and think it would make your little trips down Testosterone Lane much more hawt. Again, bias rears its ugly head.

I guess my only question is, why do YOU want to wack all that hair off for the poor bald people. Altruism? Irritation with long hair (I dig that one)? Random wackiness? As always, I advise knowing why you really want to do something before doing it, and then do it whole-hearted. (which is terribly hypocritical, considering my track record. But do as I say, not as I do!)

All that aside, are you going to come to my birthday dinner on the 25th? It's at Claimjumpers near Southcenter. You can bring your new man if you need to. Let me know, I make reservations this weekend. ^^

Date: 2005-03-16 11:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gement.livejournal.com
No altruism; their track record as a charity is actually rather dubious. Sheer genderbent mania, plus the fact that I don't know what to DO with it long.

But then on the other hand I start feeling slightly outraged that someone should have to have short hair to signal male, etc. etc.

Eh. Still chewing on it. I'll give you a call about the dinner, thanks for letting me know!

Date: 2005-03-16 05:35 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] annissamazing
I'd say give it a month then if you still want to, go for it. I'd love to see a pic after it's done. I tried to grow my hair out to donate to Locks of Love, but my hair just won't grow long enough.

What happened with the hair?

Date: 2005-05-08 12:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sprgtime.livejournal.com
Did you go for the cut or not?

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