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gementI am changing my legal name to Robin. Hooray!
This will solve the "what should I introduce you as" problem that has been confounding me and thus inconveniencing everyone else for the last couple of years.
I am still using they/them/their pronouns as much as possible. We'll see if settling my name eases my stress about that.
Edited for clarity: Anywhere you're already saying "gement" automatically, that's dandy. Keep doing that.
Marilee Shape Space Gement Robin Christopher Rae Ray Glenn late for dinner it depends aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Robin!
Sorted. I said, to someone I don't know well yet, "I'm seriously considering changing my name," for the first time at around 7pm yesterday.
Once I said it, I looked at how few contexts I still readily used my first name, and how much I winced every time, and said, "if I'm telling my cab drivers and baristas and acquaintances and EVERYONE who doesn't know me yet Robin, that seems to be something I'm happy with, now, isn't it?" Having slept on it, and talked with J this morning, it all seems kind of obvious.
I'm keeping all of my first name as middle names. I *like* my first name, just not quite on me right now. I retain an option on using it again or answering interchangeably once it doesn't feel compulsory.
My initials (which I like) shift from MRG to RMG. (Well, RMRG, but I won't be using the second middle name except to keep it legally because it's inherited and I like that about it.)
So, that's happening. I will not take offense if you forget, though I will remind you.
Anyone who's done this, if you have a handy online checklist or are willing to talk me through any particularly tricky bits, I welcome your input.
ALSO, I turn 35 Real Soon Now and I am having a birthday party for serious this time having skipped the last four. If you're in town and interested in attending, would you prefer Saturday June 7 or Sunday June 8?
[Poll #1968614]
As usual, if you need my contact information and we aren't LJ-friends, leave a comment or ping me some other way.
This will solve the "what should I introduce you as" problem that has been confounding me and thus inconveniencing everyone else for the last couple of years.
I am still using they/them/their pronouns as much as possible. We'll see if settling my name eases my stress about that.
Edited for clarity: Anywhere you're already saying "gement" automatically, that's dandy. Keep doing that.
Marilee Shape Space Gement Robin Christopher Rae Ray Glenn late for dinner it depends aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Robin!
Sorted. I said, to someone I don't know well yet, "I'm seriously considering changing my name," for the first time at around 7pm yesterday.
Once I said it, I looked at how few contexts I still readily used my first name, and how much I winced every time, and said, "if I'm telling my cab drivers and baristas and acquaintances and EVERYONE who doesn't know me yet Robin, that seems to be something I'm happy with, now, isn't it?" Having slept on it, and talked with J this morning, it all seems kind of obvious.
I'm keeping all of my first name as middle names. I *like* my first name, just not quite on me right now. I retain an option on using it again or answering interchangeably once it doesn't feel compulsory.
My initials (which I like) shift from MRG to RMG. (Well, RMRG, but I won't be using the second middle name except to keep it legally because it's inherited and I like that about it.)
So, that's happening. I will not take offense if you forget, though I will remind you.
Anyone who's done this, if you have a handy online checklist or are willing to talk me through any particularly tricky bits, I welcome your input.
ALSO, I turn 35 Real Soon Now and I am having a birthday party for serious this time having skipped the last four. If you're in town and interested in attending, would you prefer Saturday June 7 or Sunday June 8?
[Poll #1968614]
As usual, if you need my contact information and we aren't LJ-friends, leave a comment or ping me some other way.
