gement | Last minute - Who's going to Paradise?

I'm going to Paradise Unbound starting Thursday (that's, um, tomorrow), and I've been completely slack on making updates here, which means I haven't sought networking on who else might be going. With, y'know, a vehicle that might get me out there on Thursday.

Problem-solving appreciated.

Also, I feel really stupid that the only way I know how to network for rides is flailing around on my LJ. I'm not really part of "the kink community" these days, I just kind of go to cons now and then. Which is when I realize I feel like I don't know anyone and get all depressed and flaily.

So. Advice on
(a) getting a ride or making other transportation arrangements in this instance,
(b) feeling more in-control about networking, or
(c) feeling more in-control about communicating with the outside world in general
would be appreciated.

In lighter news, my hair now looks approximately like my LJ icon. I haven't been taking nearly enough pictures, but there's plenty of color in the bottle, so I can just keep dying it brighter again until I am sufficiently documented.

Edit: Other lighter news - relationships are going well, and after a good two months of editing block, I survived critique group Monday night and have clearer ideas about what I need to change again.